Tuesday, October 19, 2010 , 10:51 PM
pri·va·cy
[prahy-vuh-see; Brit. also priv-uh-see]
Show IPA–noun, plural -cies.
1.
the state of being private; retirement or seclusion.
2.
the state of being free from intrusion or disturbance in one'sprivate life or affairs: the right to privacy.
3.
4.
Archaic . a private place.
World English Dictionary
| privacy (ˈpraɪvəsɪ, ˈprɪvəsɪ) | |
| — n | |
| 1. | the condition of being private or withdrawn; seclusion |
| 2. | the condition of being secret; secrecy |
| 3. | philosophy the condition of being necessarily restricted to asingle person |
Is privacy needed because you have something to hide? Or is it just, you needed some private space alone that even the person that is so close to you cannot know?
What is privacy actually?
It's in the condition that you're secluded and isolated from anyone, and everyone, including me. Why is privacy needed if I don't need any and I don't claim the time from you, but you do. I see couples having so little privacy that they share anything and everything else to one another.. What's so bad about this? Having totally, and I really mean totally nothing secretive about whatever your the other half is doing?
Let's look at this..
Scenario 1:
You saw me online on MSN..
You: Hey honey, why are you online? Who are you talking to?
Me: Hey sweety.... I am talking to friends.
You: WHO?!
Me: I guess it's kinda private to me I don't feel like telling you.
How would you feel?
Scenario 2:
I send you a sms that is meant for someone else..
You: Hey honey you sent the msg to the wrong person?
Me: Oh I am sorry sweety..
You: Who was it meant for, why it just sounds so different from your usual self?
Me: Im sorry but I guess it's kinda private to me I don't feel like telling you.
How would you feel?
If you feel it, I felt it too.
Then again, let's talk about privacy. Although we might be together. but sometimes we just need some time alone, to clear our thoughts, to do things that only we want to let no one knows. And this involves trust. It's so much a bigger word than any other words you find in the love dictionary. It's baby whom made me realise that trust is the thing that we should build between our relationship.
What's so wrong that I need a little privacy of my own, that goes with, 'Trust me, I won't do you wrong!' And, trust, if you really know he's true to you.
I guess, we really do need a little privacy of our own.
We are individuals after all. Just that we happen to be together now, before marriage we have our own freedom.
Very grumpy.
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